Last Thursday marked yet another birthday of mine. It was my second since moving back to the US and my first here in our new home.
Since I turned 30, I spent a lot of time looking back on my life and dwelling on the past. But now I've decided to stop the dwelling and to focus more on what's ahead and what I have to look forward to.
So I'm writing down a few things I want to either accomplish or to be hopeful about.
Here they are:
- Having my daughter visit us here sometime soon.
(We constantly pray that her mom will open her mind to it.)
- Being more active in my son's school.
(My wife and I are joining his school's PTA.)
- Getting back in shape and losing the weight I've gained since my back injury.
(My wife and I have slowly started an exercise regimen.)
- Paying off at least one of our car loans.
(This may take a while, but it would ease a big financial burden.)
- Enhancing my career growth.
(I'm looking into taking classes in order to "raise my stock".)
- Becoming more active in Church.
(My wife and I are hoping we can work around our schedules to join the choir.)
These, of course, are just a few of things that I've been trying to focus on. Some of these are tougher to accomplish, but just changing my outlook keeps me driven and optimistic.